joi, iulie 30, 2009

The need to drag up, the need to be draged

Why isthere this need? I was thinking about people who dragged me up, and the people i dragged up. I was thinking...why don't I quit the people who drag me down (bassicaly, the people i drag up are the people who drag me down) and keep only tho people who drag me up?

And i was confused… Why? Is it a need or it's just coincidence? Anyway, i still have no sure answer, but an answer i've been thinking about sounds like this: "we need to be dragged, we need to drag up". Tell me - do you have people who drag you up? Do you have people who you drag down?

I think it is a yes, but speaking of this in a selfish way to, if you want to be a better and a smarter person, you have not to have something that drags you down, right? Maybe that is because you don't want to be the end, neither the start. Maybe it's because you need something above and something below you.

I apreciate people who dragged me up and i thank them… in my own way. And maybe the people whom I dragged up helped me find the people who dragged me up. Maybe this is the debt we had to payfor those people who helped us… maybe it's the need...what about if we get away with it?

luni, iulie 27, 2009

Expectations and trust

About trust… About expectations…
Monday morning, sunny day. I woke up too early, although sometimes I think I wake up to late…
Speaking of faith and trust, this post is about expectations and trust. It's about what we expect from our friends, our family, our partners, our jobor maybe it's about dissapointments.It's about how we have "great expectations" all the time and about the fact that we don't have trust in people i've written before about, although we care about that people.

People who don't see that they hurt other people by having to much expectations and to little faith, by having problems in accepting reality are making my subject now… and I ask myself, why? Why so little faith?
Why are some people blind, why do they hurt the people who care? I don't understand that, but i see it every day - in my life, in other lives… it's something that exists.

People have too much faith, too much faith that you will lose, too much faith that you will dissapoint them. They don't apreciate many things, they do not measure the expectations. I had too many expectations and i screwed up with them, because I wasn't able to see: people - they are how they are.
But i'll remember an ideea ..
Smart people trust children, displeased ones don't.